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"As the best personal essays often do, Patchett's is a two-way mirror, reflecting both the author and her readers." --New York Times Book Review
In this thoughtful collection of essays, New York Times bestselling author Ann Patchett brings her narrative gifts to bear on her own life, using insight and compassion to turn very personal experiences into stories that will resonate with every reader.
This Is the Story of a Happy Marriage takes us into the very real world of Ann Patchett’s life. Stretching from her childhood to the present day, from a disastrous early marriage to a later happy one, it covers a multitude of topics, including relationships with family and friends, and charts the hard work and joy of writing, and the unexpected thrill of opening a bookstore.
An irresistible blend of literature and memoir, this "sparkling collection" (The New Yorker) is a unique examination of the heart, mind, and soul of one of our most revered and gifted writers.
- Print length320 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherHarper
- Publication dateNovember 5, 2013
- Dimensions6 x 1.05 x 9 inches
- ISBN-100062236679
- ISBN-13978-0062236678
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“I had been so engaged by Ann Patchett’s multifaceted story, so lured in by her confiding voice, that I forgot I was on the job. […] As the best personal essays often do, Patchett’s is a two-way mirror, reflecting both the author and her readers.” — New York Times Book Review
“Emotionally lucid. . . . Patchett is at her lyrical best when she catalogues the jungle.” — The New Yorker
“Patchett’s mastery of nonfiction [is] every bit the equal of her skill as a novelist.” — Shelf Awareness
“All the essays were a joy to read...No matter your interest, you’ll find words in this book that speak to you.” — Real Simple
“Each of the essays is its own delight and resonates with warmth and humor… If read straight through, the book presents a lovely and lyrical look at a life well lived.” — Library Journal
“Readable and candid, Patchett’s collection is a joyful celebration of life, love and the written word.” — Kirkus Reviews
“Reading Patchett is like spending time with a deeply perceptive longtime pal, or a new friend that one instantly connects with.” — USA Today
“[A] sparkling collection.” — The New Yorker
“Happy marriage, compelling writing and all worthy endeavor requires hard work. That’s Patchett’s strength. And she does a fine job.” — Miami Herald
“Patchett … is one of our best contemporary novelists. This Is the Story of a Happy Marriage reminds us that she is an exceptional writer of nonfiction, too. Her prose is a pleasure to read, regardless of genre.” — Dallas Morning News
“Novelist Ann Patchett’s excellent essay collection ranges from dogs to writing to white-knuckled air travel.” — Christian Science Monitor
“While being an artistic crafter of words, Patchett also has a storyteller’s ability to sketch a moment so vividly you can’t fail to see how her own writing life was developed.” — Aspen Daily News
“In this heartfelt collection of autobiographical essays, the novelist opens up about love, friendship, and family, exhibiting the compassionate voice that is a hallmark of her fiction.” — O, the Oprah Magazine
“It is a feat that Ann Patchett remains so lovable as a narrator, and so engaging as a storyteller, when writing about her excellent career, personal life, dog, and husband.” — Newsday
“Patchett’s is a no-nonsense voice: clear, sane, companionable… [T]he funny, frank and nervy ‘The Getaway Car’ (possibly worth the book’s price) plunges readers, roller-coaster style, into the story of Patchett’s writing life—essentially, this collection’s real subject.” — San Francisco Chronicle
“[I]n this terrific, wide-ranging collection, Patchett demonstrates how a pro does it.” — NPR's Fresh Air
“All of the essays, which have been collected from her magazine work over two decades, are excellent. Patchett writes enviable prose—fluid, simple, direct, clear, and fearless…” — Esquire.com
“Ann Patchett most definitely has something to say, in her fully realized and beautiful voice.” — Huffington Post
“[A]ll of the periodical pieces collected are finely polished, worthy of their packaging between two hard covers.” — Minneapolis Star Tribune
“Writing of loss and of the complications of love, Patchett lets down her guard … and opens both her sense of humor and her heart.” — Columbus Dispatch
“Wit-filled and elegantly executed” — Entertainment Weekly
“The best advertisement for Ann Patchett’s new collection of nonfiction is anything else Ms. Patchett has written...Ms. Patchett’s style is not overly confessional, but it is beguiling in ways that make her sound like someone you’d want to know.” — New York Times
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A Globe & Mail 100 Selection
The New York Times bestselling author of State of Wonder, Run, and Bel Canto creates a resonant portrait of a life in this collection of writings on love, friendship, work, and art.
"The tricky thing about being a writer, or about being any kind of artist, is that in addition to making art you also have to make a living."
So begins This Is the Story of a Happy Marriage, an examination of the things Ann Patchett is fully committed to—the art and craft of writing, the depths of friendship, an elderly dog, and one spectacular nun. Writing nonfiction, which started off as a means of keeping her insufficiently lucrative fiction afloat, evolved over time to be its own kind of art, the art of telling the truth as opposed to the art of making things up. Bringing her narrative gifts to bear on her own life, Patchett uses insight and compassion to turn very personal experiences into stories that will resonate with every reader.
These essays twine to create both a portrait of life and a philosophy of life. Obstacles that at first appear insurmountable—scaling a six-foot wall in order to join the Los Angeles Police Department, opening an independent bookstore, and sitting down to write a novel—are eventually mastered with quiet tenacity and a sheer force of will. The actual happy marriage, which was the one thing she felt she wasn't capable of, ultimately proves to be a metaphor as well as a fact: Patchett has devoted her life to the people and ideals she loves the most.
An irresistible blend of literature and memoir, This Is the Story of a Happy Marriage is a unique examination of the heart, mind, and soul of one of our most revered and gifted writers.
About the Author
Ann Patchett is the author of novels, most recently the #1 New York Times bestselling Tom Lake, works of nonfiction, and children's books. She has been the recipient of numerous awards, including the PEN/Faulkner, the Women's Prize for Fiction in the UK, and the Book Sense Book of the Year. Her novel The Dutch House was a finalist for the Pulitzer Prize. Her work has been translated into more than thirty languages, and Time magazine named her one of the 100 Most Influential People in the World. President Biden awarded her the National Humanities Medal in recognition of her contributions to American culture. She lives in Nashville, Tennessee, where she is the owner of Parnassus Books.
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- Publisher : Harper; First Edition (November 5, 2013)
- Language : English
- Hardcover : 320 pages
- ISBN-10 : 0062236679
- ISBN-13 : 978-0062236678
- Item Weight : 1.1 pounds
- Dimensions : 6 x 1.05 x 9 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #235,565 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #1,033 in Author Biographies
- #7,171 in Memoirs (Books)
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Ann Patchett is the author of six novels, including Bel Canto, which won the Orange Prize for Fiction. She writes for the New York Times Magazine, Elle, GQ, the Financial Times, the Paris Review and Vogue. She lives in Nashville, Tennessee.
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Customers praise the book's writing quality, noting how the author writes with understanding of the human heart and provides advice on the writing life. Moreover, the collection features a great mix of short stories about the author's life, with strong autobiographical context that gives readers a peek into her experiences. Additionally, the book is filled with wisdom and makes readers think deeply, while its humorous style makes them laugh many times.
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- Reviewed in the United States on January 22, 2024
5.0 out of 5 stars A Beautiful Collection of Essays on a Writer's Life That Reads Better than Memoir
I indulged in this collection of Ann Patchett's writing over a snowy weekend in the dead of winter and, I swear, every essay went down like a warm cup of cocoa. Maybe part of the pleasure I derived stems from the fact that the author's background and mine share more in common than I'd ever realized. Reading this book did feel a little like catching up with a dear but long-lost friend, yes. But I also happen to love beautifully crafted and insightful writing with great heart. And this work fully delivered. Patchett is a true artist and, collectively, these essays present a literary mosaic of her life that reads even better than memoir.
The cover of this work may mislead you, as The Story of a Happy Marriage is the title of both the book and an included Audible Original piece that Patchett wrote in 2011. Only a few of its 22 essays focus on her relationship with her husband, Karl. The rest center on other significant relationships, aspects, and experiences in her life that she chose to honor in various newspaper and magazine articles and college addresses from 1996 through 2012. And I do mean honor, because what blew me away most about this work is Patchett's remarkable gift for conveying precisely what she's found most precious in her relationships and life experiences. In exquisite prose, she shines a clear bright light on the hidden beauty that most of us blithely overlook in our own lives.
There is something for everyone in this book, guaranteed. For the would-be writer, Patchett offers valuable insights and advice on the writing life in "The Getaway Car" and describes her own path to becoming a bestselling author. Anyone in law enforcement will especially appreciate "The Wall" in which she pays tribute to not only her father and his long career in the LAPD, but to police officers everywhere, as she recounts her own experience with the police academy. For educators, she nails the importance of wide reading in describing, both in essay and convocation address, the resistance she received when her book Truth and Beauty became assigned summer reading at Clemson. In writing of the deep bond she shared with Lucy Grealy, a former college and graduate school friend and writer who died at age 39, Patchett helps us grasp what real love truly is and how powerful its loss. And when she recounts the decline and death of her beloved grandmother, I wept. I won't even touch on her essays on marriage or dogs because they deserve so much more than a one-line, albeit effusive, acclamation. Actually, all of these essays do. Trust me. In this book, something will strike, if not your deepest chord, one you never knew you had.
Patchett's work proves brilliant in putting all manner of things in proper perspective, although you may not catch on right away. Case in point? Read "Paris Match." In it, Patchett describes a relationship-breaking argument she had with her first husband and, later, with Karl over the answer to a word game at dinner. She shares the word game with us but, just as her first husband did with her and, later, she did with Karl, Patchett doesn't provide us with the answer. Let me tell you, I searched high and low online for that blasted answer, and all I found were readers, like me, peeved that they couldn't find it, too. Then it hit me. Could there have been any better way to get us all to understand just what a relationship-breaker withholding an answer to a silly word game could be? I don't think so.
Kudos to Ann Patchett for her ingenious twist on "show, don't tell" and for not holding back on any other word in this beautiful body of work. I'm so glad I purchased, along with this one, her second collection of essays, These Precious Days. I'm all set. So, I say, let it snow, let it snow.
- Reviewed in the United States on March 5, 2014I adore Ann Patchett. I love her books. I love the story of her friendship with Lucy Grealy I love that when Nashville lost its bookstores she opened up an independent one of her own. I loved watching her interview with Stephen Colbert (if you haven't seen it, find it on YouTube). And I loved that in this book of her essays, all previously published, but all new to me, she touches on all those subjects as well as many others.
My book club decided to read this collection because we thought it would be a quick read (and it was) and because we've enjoyed Patchett's books so much she is the only author I can think of that, when she publishes something new, we always consider it and nearly always read it. Now, this is not a perfect book, but Patchett is an excellent writer and does non-fiction as well as she does fiction. I wasn't aware of her background as a magazine contributor, but it wasn't at all surprising to see that in both types of writing she visits many of the same themes generally very artfully. I loved that in the first few pages she mentioned her early work with Adrian Nicole LeBlanc, author of Random Family, one of my all-time favorite books.
OK, so some of the essays were a bit long for me (but she actually even touches on that, noting that her non-fiction was always a slave to the word count required by the publisher) but they were all good, some great (particular standouts for me were the story of her RV trip with her estranged partner, lifelong friendship with an elderly nun, her adult relationship with her grandmother (the reference to "picking up the horrible fried-fish planks from Captain D's she loved" (213) made me laugh out loud....I used to do the very same thing for my grandmother, only she preferred Long John Silver's) and her recounting of the controversy when [title: Truth and Beauty] was selected as Clemson's freshman class read).
And then, oh, the dog stories. Any animal lover will fall a little in love with Rose and I'm not ashamed to say I had the patented Oprah-ugly-cry while reading "Dog Without End" which is one of the most beautiful tributes I've ever read. My husband and I don't have children, but do have beloved dogs so I have lived through the same comments she and her husband receive, that dogs are just a placeholder (then, later, a substitute) for children and I love how she shuts down those "well-meaning" folk, describing exactly how I feel, "'Look at that,' people said, looking at me and not Rose. 'Look how badly she wants a baby.' A baby? I held up my dog for them to see, my bright, beautiful dog. 'A dog,' I said. 'I've always wanted a dog.' The truth is, I have no memory of ever wanting a baby. I have never peered longingly into someone else's stroller. I have, on occasions too numerous to list, bent down on the sidewalk to rub the ears of strange dogs, to whisper to them about their limpid eyes." (75-76). Exactly. And in one sentence she sums up my feelings about dogs with pedigrees (yes, I DO judge people who buy and don't adopt. I do. I try to be a better person than that, but then see the heartbreaking photos of pets nobody wants.) Rose was a "Parking Lot Dog, dropped off in a snowstorm to meet her fate" (77). There are way too many Parking Lot Roses out there - if we buy dogs and don't adopt from shelters or rescues, we are saying they aren't valuable enough to save. So, there's my PSA for the day.
However, my adoration for Patchett blossomed into something else when she compared her relationship with her grandmother to her relationship with Rose. When I lost my maternal grandmother (I was in my thirties) I explained it to my husband in the very same terms that Patchett uses - love for an elderly grandparent is often so similar to the love you have for your dogs, because it's so clear, so true and so unmarked by disappointment and constant change. I was just gutted an felt I was experiencing it again. I marked a lot more dog lines so I could save them for myself.
So, if you like Ann Patchett, read this. if you love essays or great magazine writing, read it. If you love dogs, read the dog essays, then read the whole thing.
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- IrisReviewed in Germany on January 24, 2019
5.0 out of 5 stars Super insightful read
I felt inspired and uplifted when I put the book away. Definitely recommended.
- Ed BainesReviewed in Spain on November 26, 2014
3.0 out of 5 stars Bood bed time reading
Good bed time reading. Thought provoking articles and essays that are just long enough to engage you before lights out.
- Book addictReviewed in the United Kingdom on April 16, 2024
5.0 out of 5 stars Life stories
If you want to know more about Ann Patchet, by reading these short stories, you learn of her life. Wonderfully written, entertaining and moving
- PaolaReviewed in Italy on October 25, 2019
3.0 out of 5 stars short stories
I had not realized that this is not a novel but a collection of articles / speeches that the author colelcted over time. Nevertheless it was a good reading, and it is going to make me read other novels written by her (described "from behind" in this book)
- Mr. Mark MillsReviewed in France on May 22, 2015
5.0 out of 5 stars Spend some time with Ann
Some of her most memorable short articles on her life experiences. I have not come across Ms Patchett's work before, and I'm an instant fan. If I could, I'd be down to the Parnassus bookshop in a flash.