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Toi et Moi (aka 'You and I', en français s'il vous plaît) rose to fame thanks to Napoleon's proposal to Josephine in 1796. While that's all very romantic, we like to think of this ring as a symbol of modern love, as in, the love you have for yourself. Why? Bc all data shows that when you take care of yourself, you are in fact a better human for the world around you. May this serve as a reminder to book that night off, say no to that dinner you are dreading, eat those carbs, take that vacay, read that book, or do whatever it is that *you* need. The rest will thank you.
Don't let the name fool you, Toi et Moi is all about *you* and we designed it as such. You're in the driver's seat here and can select (1) over a dozen gemstones in pear and emerald cuts, (2) vermeil, 14K, or 18K gold, and (3) a classic or a vintage style setting. Full array of options here.
A pear shape 5x3mm gemstone is perfectly paired with a 5x3mm emerald shape gemstone in a vintage inspired prong setting, and band of 1.75mm width, in your choice of vermeil, 14k, or 18k.
We worked with our best partners to bring you affordable and quality gemstones. Note: While our green emerald, blue sapphire, red ruby, aquamarine, pink sapphire, and green tourmaline stones are created lab-grown, all other gemstones are natural and therefore color variation and inclusions may occur.
Width:
1.75mm
Thickness:
1.5mm
Weight:
1.3g
Stones:
Pear Cut Gemstone: 5x3mm (0.29ct);
Emerald Cut Gemstones: 5x3mm (0.29ct)
SKU:
AU3167
Leather
Vegan Leather is a "faux" leather made from polymer, a recyclable and low carbon impact material. It is made without using any animal products, meaning no animals were harmed in the making of this material.
Marble
Marble is a natural stone formed by the earth over millions of years and valued for its crystalline structure and hardness. This means the veining on each of our marble pieces is unique and one of a kind.
Vermeil
Made with a 100% sterling silver base and plated in a thick layer of gold measuring at least 2.5 micron. We proudly steer clear from brass gold plating, and actually stand by the official vermeil 2.5 micron minimum guidelines.
Sterling Silver
Sterling silver is a high-quality, precious metal made from 92.5% pure silver and 7.5% other metals, usually copper. This combination enhances the strength of the silver while retaining its beautiful luster and shine. Our Sterling Silver is rhodium plated for tarnish protection.
14k Gold
We recommend 14k gold if you're looking for your jewelry to last for generations to come. With 14k gold you never have to take it off, making it ideal for everyday worry-free wear.
14k and 18k Gold
We recommend 14k or 18k gold if you're looking for your jewelry to last for generations to come. With 14k or 18k gold you never have to take it off, making it ideal for everyday worry-free wear. Both 14k and 18k offer a timeless look, with 14k prized for its durability and affordability, while 18k is chosen for its deeper color and higher value.
Platinum
More durable than gold, we recommend platinum over white gold for engagement or wedding bands, as it's easier to maintain overtime.
Natural Diamonds
We have the purist diamond standards here, only using VS2 quality or higher for our engagement solitaires, and never anything below H color. Aka, our diamonds are near colorless with no visible inclusions, and the absolute best you can find within a fair budget. We're perfectionists and proud of it.
Natural Diamonds
We have the purist diamond standards here, only using SI quality or higher, and never anything below H color. Aka, our diamonds are near colorless with no visible inclusions, and the absolute best you can find within a fair budget. As your diamond size increases, our standards increase, to ensure we always keep a flawless look. We're perfectionists and proud of it.
Lab Diamonds
Visually and chemically identical to our high quality natural diamonds, but a more affordable (and arguably environmentally friendlier) alternative. See the pros and cons here.
Diamond Certificate
All of our engagement diamond solitaire rings come with a certificate certifying the quality (cut, color, clarity and carat) of your diamond. It is run through one of two accredited institutions: The Gemological Institute of America or The International Gemological Institute. Trust but verify, always.
Gemstones
Our team of obsessors hand pick the highest quality, precious and semi-precious gemstones. Each is unique, but all pass our meticulous standards.
Pearl
We only use the highest quality AAA-rated freshwater cultured pearls with the best luster and smoothness. Never grey, never dull, never blemished.
Enamel
An ultra-lux method of applying color to gold with powdered glass and high heat. We obsessively sampled & played around with color combinations until we create the perfect hue for you.
Recycled Gold
Proudly made with recycled gold. This means the majority of the gold we use does not come from a mine, making our jewelry more sustainable. While it might cost us more, we vote planet > profit, all day every day.
Silk
Made with 100% mulberry silk. A luxurious natural fiber known for its smooth, lightweight texture and elegant sheen.
Toi et Moi (aka 'You and I', en français s'il vous plaît) rose to fame thanks to Napoleon's proposal to Josephine in 1796. While that's all very romantic, we like to think of this ring as a symbol of modern love, as in, the love you have for yourself. Why? Bc all data shows that when you take care of yourself, you are in fact a better human for the world around you. May this serve as a reminder to book that night off, say no to that dinner you are dreading, eat those carbs, take that vacay, read that book, or do whatever it is that *you* need. The rest will thank you.
Don't let the name fool you, Toi et Moi is all about *you* and we designed it as such. You're in the driver's seat here and can select (1) over a dozen gemstones in pear and emerald cuts, (2) vermeil, 14K, or 18K gold, and (3) a classic or a vintage style setting. Full array of options here.
A pear shape 5x3mm gemstone is perfectly paired with a 5x3mm emerald shape gemstone in a vintage inspired prong setting, and band of 1.75mm width, in your choice of vermeil, 14k, or 18k.
We worked with our best partners to bring you affordable and quality gemstones. Note: While our green emerald, blue sapphire, red ruby, aquamarine, pink sapphire, and green tourmaline stones are created lab-grown, all other gemstones are natural and therefore color variation and inclusions may occur.
Width:
1.75mm
Thickness:
1.5mm
Weight:
1.3g
Stones:
Pear Cut Gemstone: 5x3mm (0.29ct);
Emerald Cut Gemstones: 5x3mm (0.29ct)
SKU:
AU3167
Leather
Vegan Leather is a "faux" leather made from polymer, a recyclable and low carbon impact material. It is made without using any animal products, meaning no animals were harmed in the making of this material.
Marble
Marble is a natural stone formed by the earth over millions of years and valued for its crystalline structure and hardness. This means the veining on each of our marble pieces is unique and one of a kind.
Vermeil
Made with a 100% sterling silver base and plated in a thick layer of gold measuring at least 2.5 micron. We proudly steer clear from brass gold plating, and actually stand by the official vermeil 2.5 micron minimum guidelines.
Sterling Silver
Sterling silver is a high-quality, precious metal made from 92.5% pure silver and 7.5% other metals, usually copper. This combination enhances the strength of the silver while retaining its beautiful luster and shine. Our Sterling Silver is rhodium plated for tarnish protection.
14k Gold
We recommend 14k gold if you're looking for your jewelry to last for generations to come. With 14k gold you never have to take it off, making it ideal for everyday worry-free wear.
14k and 18k Gold
We recommend 14k or 18k gold if you're looking for your jewelry to last for generations to come. With 14k or 18k gold you never have to take it off, making it ideal for everyday worry-free wear. Both 14k and 18k offer a timeless look, with 14k prized for its durability and affordability, while 18k is chosen for its deeper color and higher value.
Platinum
More durable than gold, we recommend platinum over white gold for engagement or wedding bands, as it's easier to maintain overtime.
Natural Diamonds
We have the purist diamond standards here, only using VS2 quality or higher for our engagement solitaires, and never anything below H color. Aka, our diamonds are near colorless with no visible inclusions, and the absolute best you can find within a fair budget. We're perfectionists and proud of it.
Natural Diamonds
We have the purist diamond standards here, only using SI quality or higher, and never anything below H color. Aka, our diamonds are near colorless with no visible inclusions, and the absolute best you can find within a fair budget. As your diamond size increases, our standards increase, to ensure we always keep a flawless look. We're perfectionists and proud of it.
Lab Diamonds
Visually and chemically identical to our high quality natural diamonds, but a more affordable (and arguably environmentally friendlier) alternative. See the pros and cons here.
Diamond Certificate
All of our engagement diamond solitaire rings come with a certificate certifying the quality (cut, color, clarity and carat) of your diamond. It is run through one of two accredited institutions: The Gemological Institute of America or The International Gemological Institute. Trust but verify, always.
Gemstones
Our team of obsessors hand pick the highest quality, precious and semi-precious gemstones. Each is unique, but all pass our meticulous standards.
Pearl
We only use the highest quality AAA-rated freshwater cultured pearls with the best luster and smoothness. Never grey, never dull, never blemished.
Enamel
An ultra-lux method of applying color to gold with powdered glass and high heat. We obsessively sampled & played around with color combinations until we create the perfect hue for you.
Recycled Gold
Proudly made with recycled gold. This means the majority of the gold we use does not come from a mine, making our jewelry more sustainable. While it might cost us more, we vote planet > profit, all day every day.
Silk
Made with 100% mulberry silk. A luxurious natural fiber known for its smooth, lightweight texture and elegant sheen.
Toi et Moi (aka 'You and I', en français s'il vous plaît) rose to fame thanks to Napoleon's proposal to Josephine in 1796. While that's all very romantic, we like to think of this ring as a symbol of modern love, as in, the love you have for yourself. Why? Bc all data shows that when you take care of yourself, you are in fact a better human for the world around you. May this serve as a reminder to book that night off, say no to that dinner you are dreading, eat those carbs, take that vacay, read that book, or do whatever it is that *you* need. The rest will thank you.
Don't let the name fool you, Toi et Moi is all about *you* and we designed it as such. You're in the driver's seat here and can select (1) over a dozen gemstones in pear and emerald cuts, (2) vermeil, 14K, or 18K gold, and (3) a classic or a vintage style setting. Full array of options here.
A pear shape 5x3mm gemstone is perfectly paired with a 5x3mm emerald shape gemstone in a vintage inspired prong setting, and band of 1.75mm width, in your choice of vermeil, 14k, or 18k.
We worked with our best partners to bring you affordable and quality gemstones. Note: While our green emerald, blue sapphire, red ruby, aquamarine, pink sapphire, and green tourmaline stones are created lab-grown, all other gemstones are natural and therefore color variation and inclusions may occur.
Width:
1.75mm
Thickness:
1.5mm
Weight:
1.3g
Stones:
Pear Cut Gemstone: 5x3mm (0.29ct);
Emerald Cut Gemstones: 5x3mm (0.29ct)
SKU:
AU3167
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View our ring sizer here.
Leather
Vegan Leather is a "faux" leather made from polymer, a recyclable and low carbon impact material. It is made without using any animal products, meaning no animals were harmed in the making of this material.
Marble
Marble is a natural stone formed by the earth over millions of years and valued for its crystalline structure and hardness. This means the veining on each of our marble pieces is unique and one of a kind.
Vermeil
Made with a 100% sterling silver base and plated in a thick layer of gold measuring at least 2.5 micron. We proudly steer clear from brass gold plating, and actually stand by the official vermeil 2.5 micron minimum guidelines.
Sterling Silver
Sterling silver is a high-quality, precious metal made from 92.5% pure silver and 7.5% other metals, usually copper. This combination enhances the strength of the silver while retaining its beautiful luster and shine. Our Sterling Silver is rhodium plated for tarnish protection.
14k Gold
We recommend 14k gold if you're looking for your jewelry to last for generations to come. With 14k gold you never have to take it off, making it ideal for everyday worry-free wear.
14k and 18k Gold
We recommend 14k or 18k gold if you're looking for your jewelry to last for generations to come. With 14k or 18k gold you never have to take it off, making it ideal for everyday worry-free wear. Both 14k and 18k offer a timeless look, with 14k prized for its durability and affordability, while 18k is chosen for its deeper color and higher value.
Platinum
More durable than gold, we recommend platinum over white gold for engagement or wedding bands, as it's easier to maintain overtime.
Natural Diamonds
We have the purist diamond standards here, only using VS2 quality or higher for our engagement solitaires, and never anything below H color. Aka, our diamonds are near colorless with no visible inclusions, and the absolute best you can find within a fair budget. We're perfectionists and proud of it.
Natural Diamonds
We have the purist diamond standards here, only using SI quality or higher, and never anything below H color. Aka, our diamonds are near colorless with no visible inclusions, and the absolute best you can find within a fair budget. As your diamond size increases, our standards increase, to ensure we always keep a flawless look. We're perfectionists and proud of it.
Lab Diamonds
Visually and chemically identical to our high quality natural diamonds, but a more affordable (and arguably environmentally friendlier) alternative. See the pros and cons here.
Diamond Certificate
All of our engagement diamond solitaire rings come with a certificate certifying the quality (cut, color, clarity and carat) of your diamond. It is run through one of two accredited institutions: The Gemological Institute of America or The International Gemological Institute. Trust but verify, always.
Gemstones
Our team of obsessors hand pick the highest quality, precious and semi-precious gemstones. Each is unique, but all pass our meticulous standards.
Pearl
We only use the highest quality AAA-rated freshwater cultured pearls with the best luster and smoothness. Never grey, never dull, never blemished.
Enamel
An ultra-lux method of applying color to gold with powdered glass and high heat. We obsessively sampled & played around with color combinations until we create the perfect hue for you.
Recycled Gold
Proudly made with recycled gold. This means the majority of the gold we use does not come from a mine, making our jewelry more sustainable. While it might cost us more, we vote planet > profit, all day every day.
Silk
Made with 100% mulberry silk. A luxurious natural fiber known for its smooth, lightweight texture and elegant sheen.
Toi et Moi (aka 'You and I', en français s'il vous plaît) rose to fame thanks to Napoleon's proposal to Josephine in 1796. While that's all very romantic, we like to think of this ring as a symbol of modern love, as in, the love you have for yourself. Why? Bc all data shows that when you take care of yourself, you are in fact a better human for the world around you. May this serve as a reminder to book that night off, say no to that dinner you are dreading, eat those carbs, take that vacay, read that book, or do whatever it is that *you* need. The rest will thank you.
Don't let the name fool you, Toi et Moi is all about *you* and we designed it as such. You're in the driver's seat here and can select (1) over a dozen gemstones in pear and emerald cuts, (2) vermeil, 14K, or 18K gold, and (3) a classic or a vintage style setting. Full array of options here.
A pear shape 5x3mm gemstone is perfectly paired with a 5x3mm emerald shape gemstone in a vintage inspired prong setting, and band of 1.75mm width, in your choice of vermeil, 14k, or 18k.
We worked with our best partners to bring you affordable and quality gemstones. Note: While our green emerald, blue sapphire, red ruby, aquamarine, pink sapphire, and green tourmaline stones are created lab-grown, all other gemstones are natural and therefore color variation and inclusions may occur.
Width:
1.75mm
Thickness:
1.5mm
Weight:
1.3g
Stones:
Pear Cut Gemstone: 5x3mm (0.29ct);
Emerald Cut Gemstones: 5x3mm (0.29ct)
SKU:
AU3167
Leather
Vegan Leather is a "faux" leather made from polymer, a recyclable and low carbon impact material. It is made without using any animal products, meaning no animals were harmed in the making of this material.
Marble
Marble is a natural stone formed by the earth over millions of years and valued for its crystalline structure and hardness. This means the veining on each of our marble pieces is unique and one of a kind.
Vermeil
Made with a 100% sterling silver base and plated in a thick layer of gold measuring at least 2.5 micron. We proudly steer clear from brass gold plating, and actually stand by the official vermeil 2.5 micron minimum guidelines.
Sterling Silver
Sterling silver is a high-quality, precious metal made from 92.5% pure silver and 7.5% other metals, usually copper. This combination enhances the strength of the silver while retaining its beautiful luster and shine. Our Sterling Silver is rhodium plated for tarnish protection.
14k Gold
We recommend 14k gold if you're looking for your jewelry to last for generations to come. With 14k gold you never have to take it off, making it ideal for everyday worry-free wear.
14k and 18k Gold
We recommend 14k or 18k gold if you're looking for your jewelry to last for generations to come. With 14k or 18k gold you never have to take it off, making it ideal for everyday worry-free wear. Both 14k and 18k offer a timeless look, with 14k prized for its durability and affordability, while 18k is chosen for its deeper color and higher value.
Platinum
More durable than gold, we recommend platinum over white gold for engagement or wedding bands, as it's easier to maintain overtime.
Natural Diamonds
We have the purist diamond standards here, only using VS2 quality or higher for our engagement solitaires, and never anything below H color. Aka, our diamonds are near colorless with no visible inclusions, and the absolute best you can find within a fair budget. We're perfectionists and proud of it.
Natural Diamonds
We have the purist diamond standards here, only using SI quality or higher, and never anything below H color. Aka, our diamonds are near colorless with no visible inclusions, and the absolute best you can find within a fair budget. As your diamond size increases, our standards increase, to ensure we always keep a flawless look. We're perfectionists and proud of it.
Lab Diamonds
Visually and chemically identical to our high quality natural diamonds, but a more affordable (and arguably environmentally friendlier) alternative. See the pros and cons here.
Diamond Certificate
All of our engagement diamond solitaire rings come with a certificate certifying the quality (cut, color, clarity and carat) of your diamond. It is run through one of two accredited institutions: The Gemological Institute of America or The International Gemological Institute. Trust but verify, always.
Gemstones
Our team of obsessors hand pick the highest quality, precious and semi-precious gemstones. Each is unique, but all pass our meticulous standards.
Pearl
We only use the highest quality AAA-rated freshwater cultured pearls with the best luster and smoothness. Never grey, never dull, never blemished.
Enamel
An ultra-lux method of applying color to gold with powdered glass and high heat. We obsessively sampled & played around with color combinations until we create the perfect hue for you.
Recycled Gold
Proudly made with recycled gold. This means the majority of the gold we use does not come from a mine, making our jewelry more sustainable. While it might cost us more, we vote planet > profit, all day every day.
Silk
Made with 100% mulberry silk. A luxurious natural fiber known for its smooth, lightweight texture and elegant sheen.
Fine jewelry born and raised in New York. Designed by two friends tired of green fingers. Fine jewelry born and raised in New York. Designed by two friends tired of green fingers. Fine jewelry born and raised in New York. Designed by two friends tired of green fingers. Fine jewelry born and raised in New York. Designed by two friends tired of green fingers. Fine jewelry born and raised in New York. Designed by two friends tired of green fingers. Fine jewelry born and raised in New York. Designed by two friends tired of green fingers. Fine jewelry born and raised in New York. Designed by two friends tired of green fingers. Fine jewelry born and raised in New York. Designed by two friends tired of green fingers. Fine jewelry born and raised in New York. Designed by two friends tired of green fingers.
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- MPVerified BuyerI recommend this productIs this your first time shopping with us? YesAge Range 25 - 34How it Fits Fits true to sizeIs this a gift? No - I bought it for myselfRated 5 out of 5 stars1 week agoStunning piece! Ruby and Pink Morganite.
I have very few precious pieces of precious jewelry, and when I bought this it was final sale so I was particular nervous. But it’s so beautiful, and fits well on multiple fingers. If it hadn’t, the customer service team assured me they would resize it.
The ruby is dark pink-ish (which I wanted) and the morganite is the palest of pinks. They look lovely together. I am so pleased and cannot wait to wear it more.
QualityRated 5.0 on a scale of 1 to 5Could be better ExcellentWas this helpful? - Erin R.Verified BuyerI recommend this productIs this your first time shopping with us? YesAge Range 35 - 44How it Fits Fits true to sizeIs this a gift? No - I bought it for myselfRated 5 out of 5 stars3 months agoOvernight Beauty
This was a custom platinum emerald and sapphire ring, and not only is the ring stunning! It arrived several weeks early, and Aurate overnight shipped it to arrive on Christmas Eve.
I’m blown away! Pictures do not do the quality and color of the gemstones justice. The platinum is bright and brilliant. A beautiful right hand ring I never plan to take off!
QualityRated 5.0 on a scale of 1 to 5Could be better ExcellentWas this helpful? - LizziVerified BuyerI recommend this productIs this your first time shopping with us? YesAge Range 25 - 34How it Fits Fits true to sizeIs this a gift? No - I bought it for myselfRated 5 out of 5 stars9 months agoPerfect
Love this ring! It’s dainty yet sturdy, and all around gorgeous. I had a last minute change to my order which Aurate was quick to help with. Also, they shipped it out right on time and the shipping was super quick. All around very happy with my ring and shopping experience!
QualityRated 5.0 on a scale of 1 to 5Could be better ExcellentWas this helpful? - SuzanneVerified BuyerI recommend this productIs this your first time shopping with us? YesAge Range 35 - 44How it Fits Fits true to sizeIs this a gift? No - I bought it for myselfRated 5 out of 5 stars10 months agoPerfect!
Purchased the Toi et Moi Gemstone Classic Ring with aquamarine and sapphire stones in 18 carat yellow gold. It exceeded my expectations! Simultaneously, I ordered the Open Link Ring in 18 carat gold to stack with it. The two look perfect together!
QualityRated 5.0 on a scale of 1 to 5Could be better ExcellentWas this helpful? - Alicia C.Verified BuyerI recommend this productIs this your first time shopping with us? YesAge Range 35 - 44How it Fits Fits true to sizeIs this a gift? No - I bought it for myselfRated 5 out of 5 stars11 months agoBeautiful ring even better service
In order this ring and was so thrilled to receive it. Unfortunately, the original package got lost in USPS. I reached out immediately to the Aurate team. They moved quickly to acknowledge the error, ordered me a new ring, and it was shipped in 6 weeks per their promise. It arrived via a more reliable carrier and was perfect. I can’t thank the team at Aurate enough for how graciously they handled this. I will definitely be a return purchaser.
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