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Not Your Mother's Tough Love Intense Bonding Treatment and Bonding Leave-In Protector (2-Pack)

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Product Benefits Damage Control, Strengthening, Detangling, Frizz Control, Shine, Moisturizing, Softening, Heat Protection See more
Hair Type Normal
Material Type Free Sulfate Free, Paraben Free, Dye Free, Gluten Free, Cruelty Free, Vegan
Liquid Volume 10.5 Fluid Ounces
Brand Not Your Mother's

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  • BONDING TREATMENT AND LEAVE-IN PROTECTOR: Hair treatment and leave-in products help maintain hair strength, repair hair, and provide lasting hair protection; Velvety peony and musk scent
  • MADE WITH ACTIVE BONDING TECHNOLOGY: Hair products formulated with Active Bonding Technology ingredients that penetrate hair to repair broken hair bonds and restore damaged hair caused by color, chemical services, heat, and daily styling*
  • MADE WITH GOOD VIBES ONLY: Sulfate-free, paraben-free, dye-free, gluten-free, cruelty-free, and vegan; Safe for all hair types, including natural hair and colored hair
  • USE TOGETHER: Use Tough Love Intense Bonding Treatment as a pre-wash hair treatment, wash hair with Tough Love Bonding Shampoo & Conditioner, then spray Tough Love Leave-In Protector onto damp hair and style as desired
  • NOT YOUR MOTHER'S HAIR PRODUCTS: Try other Not Your Mother's hair products like dry shampoo, hair stylers, hair treatments, and other shampoos and conditioners
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  • Product Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 4 x 2 x 7.5 inches; 13.44 ounces
  • Item model number ‏ : ‎ 13513
  • Manufacturer ‏ : ‎ Demert Brands, Inc.
  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B0CKWMGB7Z
  • Country of Origin ‏ : ‎ USA
  • Customer Reviews:
    4.2 out of 5 stars 91 ratings

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Water (Aqua) (Eau), Cetearyl Alcohol, Butylene Glycol, Bis-4-PCA Dimethicone, Behentrimonium Chloride, Caprylic/Capric Triglyceride, Glycerin, Cetrimonium Chloride, Ceteareth-20, Disodium PEG-12 Dimethicone Sulfosuccinate, Acrylamidopropyltrimonium Chloride/Acrylates Copolymer, Caesalpinia Spinosa Gum, Isohexadecane, Coceth-7, Isopropyl Alcohol, Fragrance (Parfum), Hexyl Cinnamal, Aminomethyl Propanol, Phenoxyethanol, Ethylhexylglycerin, Lactic Acid.

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Start with the Not Your Mother's Tough Love Intense Bonding Treatment. Simply wet hair, remove excess moisture, divide hair into sections, and work treatment evenly from root to tip. Leave on for 10 minutes or longer, then rinse well. Follow up with Not Your Mother's Tough Love Bonding Shampoo and Conditioner. Finish your hair care routine with Not Your Mother's Tough Love Bonding Leave-In Protector: spray onto clean, damp hair, then comb through and style as desired.

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Customers find the product effective for frizzy and fine hair. They say it produces results immediately and leaves their hair soft, smooth, and protected. The product has an amazing smell and helps restore hair health.

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10 customers mention "Hair type"10 positive0 negative

Customers appreciate the product's suitability for hair types. It works well on frizzy, fine, and curly hair, leaving them with beautiful curls. They also mention it improves their hair immediately.

"Great for 4c hair. So soft and gives the hair lots of shine" Read more

"I love the smell of these products and they work amazing!!..." Read more

"...I tried the intense conditioner, and it worked great. It made my hair super soft...." Read more

"...it also comes with a pleasant smell for both products and produces results immediately...." Read more

6 customers mention "Softness"6 positive0 negative

Customers like the softness of the product. It makes their hair silky, smooth, and protected.

"Great for 4c hair. So soft and gives the hair lots of shine" Read more

"...The pre wash always makes my hair so soft and feels nice and the leave in conditioner is my favorite. I have repurchased now twice...." Read more

"...is such a light formula that doesn’t weigh the hair down and keeps it silky, smooth & protected. I’m obsessed!" Read more

"...I tried the intense conditioner, and it worked great. It made my hair super soft...." Read more

4 customers mention "Smell"4 positive0 negative

Customers like the smell of the hair styling agent. They mention it has a nice scent.

"I love the smell of these products and they work amazing!!..." Read more

"...Not only is this system easy to use but it also comes with a pleasant smell for both products and produces results immediately...." Read more

"...along with thw shampoo and conditioner and it works so good and smells nice, makes my thick wavy hair soft." Read more

"It leaves the hair in such beautiful curls and has an amazing smell to it too!!! Would definitely recommend for curly hair." Read more

3 customers mention "Hair health"3 positive0 negative

Customers like the product's hair health benefits. It helps get their hair back in good shape and helps with brittle hair. They recommend it for curly hair, leaving it with beautiful curls.

"...pretty good tangles with my curly hair and this always helps get my hair back in good shape." Read more

"...My breakage is very minimal. I have graves disease and this has helped my brittle hair." Read more

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  • tanya
    5.0 out of 5 stars Great product
    Reviewed in the United States on March 5, 2025
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    Great for 4c hair. So soft and gives the hair lots of shine
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  • Nicole
    5.0 out of 5 stars The best!
    Reviewed in the United States on December 14, 2024
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    I love the smell of these products and they work amazing!! The pre wash always makes my hair so soft and feels nice and the leave in conditioner is my favorite. I have repurchased now twice. I get pretty good tangles with my curly hair and this always helps get my hair back in good shape.
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  • Christian
    4.0 out of 5 stars It's okay
    Reviewed in the United States on June 4, 2024
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    Using these made my hair softer and the split ends don't look as messy and damaged as they did before using. I haven't used the shampoo and conditioner with this, but I'm sure if I tried those with these two products then it'd make these two work better.
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  • Katarina Terentieva
    5.0 out of 5 stars Perfect For Fine Hair!
    Reviewed in the United States on December 28, 2024
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    This whole line is a fine hair blonde’s dream! The pre-wash treatment is excellent, making it easy to wash hair without tangles or feeling like you’re pulling out chunks. The leave-in protector is such a light formula that doesn’t weigh the hair down and keeps it silky, smooth & protected. I’m obsessed!
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  • Cheyenne
    5.0 out of 5 stars Love it
    Reviewed in the United States on November 19, 2024
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    I bleached the underneath of my hair so it's of course very damaged/dry. I tried the intense conditioner, and it worked great. It made my hair super soft. After about a week of shampooing and all, it gets back to looking damaged/dry (not as bad as before though), but it suggests using about 1x a week. The leave in spray is awesome. I need more of the spray, but I haven't found where it's sold separately without it costing. I'll be ordering more of this for sure!
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  • TjB
    1.0 out of 5 stars Drying to hair.
    Reviewed in the United States on March 15, 2025
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    Fries my hair out. It’s worse off after using this product.
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  • Thea P.
    3.0 out of 5 stars Spray is ok but does leave a bit of residue on my fine curly hair
    Reviewed in the United States on June 1, 2024
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    I didnt notice much difference on my
    dry hair. Im not sure what a bond multiplier is but it didnt do much for my dry wavy hair.
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  • Danielle K.
    5.0 out of 5 stars Helps bleach-damage!
    Reviewed in the United States on August 20, 2024
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    I have a peekaboo bleach job on my hair, that i originally did at home so all of my blonde hair was severely damaged from bleaching it. I have used this product once and there is already a significant difference in my hair visually and texture wise. It used to feel very dry and coarse and look VERY frizzy. Not only is this system easy to use but it also comes with a pleasant smell for both products and produces results immediately. i have had damaged, frizzy hair for almost a year now and this is the best it’s felt since. i recommend this product highly.
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