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Woman of Interest: A Memoir Hardcover – June 25, 2024
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MOST ANTICIPATED READ and MUST READ OF 2024: The Millions, LitHub, Esquire, BookRiot, Bustle, Vulture, Boston Globe, Brit & Co, Southern Living
“Woman of Interest is a memoir wrapped in a mystery—an inward examination of family, identity, and self, but also an actual gumshoe detective story. Each extraordinary, prickly sentence is conjured with clarity and conflict. Funny, moving, mean—an exceptional book from an extraordinary writer.” —Kevin Nguyen, author of New Waves
“Dark, deeply funny. . . . Dashiell Hammett meets Fleabag.”—The New Yorker
A National Book Foundation’s 5 Under 35 honoree delivers her first work of nonfiction: a compulsively readable, genre-bending story of finding her missing birth mother and, along the way, learning the priceless power of self-knowledge.
In 2020, Tracy O’Neill began to rethink her ideas of comfort and safety. Just out of a ten-year relationship and thirtysomething, she was driven by an acute awareness that the mysterious mother she’d never met might be dying somewhere in South Korea.
After contacting a grizzled private investigator, O’Neill took his suggested homework to heart when he disappeared before the job was done, picking up the trail of clues and becoming her own hell-bent detective. Despite COVID-19, the promise of what she might discover—the possibility that her biological mother was her kind of outlaw, whose life could inspire her own—was too tempting.
Written like a mystery novel, Woman of Interest is a tale of self-discovery and fugitivity from convention that features a femme fatale of unique proportions, a former CIA operative with a criminal record, and a dogged investigator of radical connections outside the nuclear family. O’Neill gorgeously bends the detective genre to her own will as a writer, stepping out of the shadows of her own self-conception to illuminate the hopes of the woman of interest she is both chasing and becoming.
- Print length288 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherHarperOne
- Publication dateJune 25, 2024
- Dimensions5.5 x 0.9 x 8.25 inches
- ISBN-100063309866
- ISBN-13978-0063309869
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"A funny, effervescent addition to the memoir-as-detective-story genre." — Nicole Chung, Esquire
"A fascinating and immersive look at identity, dedication and unanswered questions." — Tobias Carroll, InsideHook
"Cool, noir-tinted prose shot through with wit and compassion, O’Neill presents her inquiry as a sort of metaphysical detective story. Readers will be riveted." — Publishers Weekly (starred review)
"Resembles what experimental jazz would be like if it were a written narrative. Funny, shocking, and emotionally charged, the memoir takes readers on [O'Neill's] journey of self-discovery and finding what family means." — Library Journal
"O’Neill’s prose brims with intelligence, energy, and humor." — New York
"[An] urgent, atmospheric memoir meets noir about family shadows, writing, and the pursuit of searching for answers we know we might never find." — Oprah Daily
"This is a work that is funny, moving, mean—an exceptional book from an extraordinary writer." — Literary Hub
"[A] genre-expanding noir memoir-detective story, full of drama, intrigue, bizarre characters, even more bizarre behavior, and unexpected twists." — New York Journal of Books
"Dark, deeply funny ... Framing her narrative as a detective story, [O'Neill] writes in a comedic voice that’s at once old-fashioned and contemporary—Dashiell Hammett meets Fleabag." — New Yorker
"[O'Neill] writes with convincing and passionate introspection….Woman of Interest contains shining moments, such as a road trip with O’Neill’s newfound sister and the author’s distilled descriptions of childhood." — New York Times
"The literature of the Korean adoptee typically circles around a fundamental void, an abyss: the loss of the biological mother….O’Neill elevates the subgenre, producing a memoir that is simultaneously an investigation, a noir with a femme fatale, and a darkly humorous tale of what happens when one meets the person who has everything and nothing to do with one’s life….Instead of the reparative gestures of a traditional adoptee memoir, Woman of Interest offers something darker, colder, more fraught, and ultimately, singular and transcendent." — Patrick Cottrell, Bomb
"O’Neill is a true stylist; her prose brims with intelligence, energy, and humor. This memoir exploring identity and family is unlike any other." — Vulture
"O’Neill leverages her significant talent to infuse the tension of a hard-boiled mystery novel into an exploration of motherhood, identity, and belonging." — Bustle
"By choosing the tone of a noir, she inhabits a narrative space full of macabre humor, plot twists and offbeat characters. Her sentences run to the jangling and unpredictable rhythms of the classic detective story, with spare descriptions and snappy, deadpan dialogue. ... O’Neill reports on a quest that, while uniquely her own in terms of form and content, is also relatable to anyone who has ever looked in the mirror and wondered, 'Who am I, really? And who are my people?'" — BookPage
"One of the most distinctive prose stylists writing today…[O’Neill] approaches this deeply personal quest like an icy cool spy on an assignment of international espionage." — Boston Globe
"There are some new summer books that have nothing to do with fiction, but read like a mystery novel. This is one of them." — Brit + Co
"Her memoir at times reads like a thriller and does so right at the beginning ... O’Neill captures in her writing the complexities of family and the pain caused by separation and by keeping secrets." — Asian Review of Books
"O’Neill’s memoir absorbs and upends the form of a detective novel, with the author herself starring as both an investigator and the elusive subject of inquiry. … The narrative bends and evolves into something entirely new, telling the powerful, moving story of one woman’s journey toward an understanding of family and identity." — Crime Reads, "Best True Crime Memoirs of 2024"
"Woman of Interest is a brilliantly constructed Russian doll of a memoir—a profound meditation on language and desire within an insightful family mythology within a propulsive detective story. How does Tracy O’Neill hold it all together? With a rare combination of exquisite prose, good humor, and intellectual rigor." — Nadia Owusu, author of Aftershocks
"Know this: Tracy O’Neill has a novelist’s sense of narrative, the eye and ear of a poet, and the luminous mind of young philosopher—gifts woven into an innovative, propulsive, and trenchant memoir about the search for self and one’s roots as well as the evolution of family myths. This book, as is Tracy, is an exemplar of literary brilliance." — Mitchell S. Jackson, author of Survival Math
"Woman of Interest is a memoir wrapped in a mystery—an inward examination of family, identity, and self, but also an actual gumshoe detective story that takes the author to the other side of the world. With each extraordinary, prickly sentence, O’Neill’s search for her biological mother is conjured with clarity and conflict. This is a work that is funny, moving, mean—an exceptional book from an extraordinary writer." — Kevin Nguyen, author of New Waves
"With Woman of Interest, Tracy O’Neill solidifies her status as one of our greatest living prose stylists. With a singular wit and brilliance, O’Neill expands the horizons of the memoir, pushing the boundaries of the genre into the realm of detective noir and thrilling quest narrative. O’Neill’s formal innovations and bracing prose create a new and invigorating lens through which readers can view a universal theme: the desire to search for the self and one’s source." — Chloé Cooper Jones, author of Easy Beauty
About the Author
Tracy O’Neill is the author of the novels The Hopeful and Quotients. She was named a National Book Foundation 5 Under 35 honoree, longlisted for the Center for Fiction First Novel Prize, and was a Narrative 30 Below finalist. She was also named a Center for Fiction Emerging Writers Fellow. O’Neill teaches at Vassar College, and her writing has appeared in Granta, the New York Times, Rolling Stone, the Atlantic, The New Yorker, Bookforum, and other publications.
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- Publisher : HarperOne (June 25, 2024)
- Language : English
- Hardcover : 288 pages
- ISBN-10 : 0063309866
- ISBN-13 : 978-0063309869
- Item Weight : 2.31 pounds
- Dimensions : 5.5 x 0.9 x 8.25 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #867,833 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #6,095 in Women's Biographies
- #6,842 in Sociology Reference
- #15,304 in Memoirs (Books)
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About the author

Tracy O'Neill is the author of the novel The Hopeful. In 2015, the National Book Foundation named her a 5 Under 35 Honoree and she was long-listed for the Flaherty-Dunnan First Novel Prize. She was awarded the NYC Emerging Writers Fellowship by the Center for Fiction in 2012. You can find her writing in Guernica, Granta, Vol. 1 Brooklyn, and The Literarian, as well as online at the San Francisco Chronicle, Grantland, Rolling Stone, The Atlantic, the New Yorker, and Bookforum. She lives in Brooklyn and teaches at the City College of New York.
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- Reviewed in the United States on July 30, 2024I'm a Korean adoptee, like the author, and I was struck by how much I related not only to Tracy O'Neill's search for her birth mother, but the thematic questions she raises throughout the book, though I suppose those two things are not mutually exclusive. However, I imagine a lot of readers, no matter what their background, will connect to the following: the concept of 'home' being a moving target, a feeling of fierce loyalty toward to your friends, a worry that the stories you've been told by other family members about your early childhood could actually be a long con, and an existential wondering about what a good second half of life looks like, especially if you're potentially not getting married and having children. All ideas that are circled in Woman of Interest, a memoir that pushes the boundaries of the genre in both its prose and approach. I also felt the book's focus on investigation and its atmosphere of paranoia was a nice follow up to O'Neill's previous novel, the spy novel Quotients.
- Reviewed in the United States on July 7, 2024Tracy O'Neill has written a brilliant memoir on her journey of locating her birth mother in Korea under the backdrop of the COVID 19 pandemic. Her writing is instantly captivating and kept me wanting to continue with her story, even though, truthfully, I didn't remember requesting this memoir, but her perspective and story is fascinating. Additionally, there is so little representation of AAPI adoptees working to find their birth parents, and this memoir details why this can be such a challenging undertaking.
Throughout, her existing relationships are woven into the story - her network of friends, her partner at the time, N, and her adoptive mom. Her characterizations of everyone are incisive and I had so many highlights throughout of fantastic quotes. When referring to the overwhelming experience of meeting her birth mother and family in Korea all while dealing with a language barrier - she says " I don't hate her at all. I am just drowning in her" I think it was also particularly poignant that she later refers to keeping up her relationships with friends overseas that "This is what we give each other at a distance: language" further underscoring the challenges associated the language barrier with her Korean family
Tracy also explores what "home" means - and sometimes, many of the times, home is your dog, something I relate to heavily and a theme that reprised.
I very much recommend the book. Thank you to NetGalley and to the publisher, HarperOne, for the advanced copy.
- Reviewed in the United States on October 9, 2024The author was born in Korea and adopted into an American family. I've read quite a few memoirs written by adopted persons who sought a connection with their family of birth. This one was, in a word, awful. Poorly writte and virtually impossible to follow -- almost like stream-of-consciousness. I managed to finish it by just skimming many pages that made no sense. Not worth the time or money.
- Reviewed in the United States on August 2, 2024Woman of Interest – Tracy O’Neill – 2024 –
This is a complex and unsettling account of O’Neill’s international adoption, her search for her birth mother, and journey to South Korea to meet her birth family during the Covid-19 Pandemic (December 2021). O’Neill, a writer, novelist, and educator, completed her MA at Columbia University and currently teaches at Vassar College, “Woman of Interest” is her third book.
The private investigator O’Neill originally hired, abandoned her case. Thanks to DNA technology, she was able to contact a distant cousin, “Uncle Phillip” who had moved to the US from South Korea (1986), and knew her birthmother, half-sister and two half-brothers. Phil was happy to help her arrange the trip but recommended a later travel date. Covid infections had increased, there would be a 10-day quarantine period, and later, he would be able to send his daughters to assist and act as translators. O’Neill refused to consider his suggestion and wanted to leave right away. O’Neill didn’t seem to know enough about her birth family, the language, social customs or culture. Instead, she would depend on her uncle and the Google Translation apps.
In South Korea, despite the short notice and introductory period, her family was kind, accommodating, and genuinely pleased meet and host O’Neill, although unsure and perplexed on how to answer her numerous questions and explain their family dynamic. Her “Eomma” had likely faced severe judgment and stigma in polite Korean society for O’Neill’s birth by a man who was married to someone else, divorce, and her children, each with different fathers. None of these things made her a criminal or con-artist. O’Neill believed that her Eomma was a liar, (and seemed to judge her by American standards) and was disappointed that Eomma refused consent to the release of additional records by the Eastern Social Welfare Society, and her youngest brother, for reasons unknown, was unavailable to meet her.
Outside of Seoul, O’Neill’s Eomma lived in a luxury 3-bedroom high rise apartment building with her geriatric dog. Due to the change in time zones, O’Neill was exhausted (irritable) and unable to sleep well, yet this didn't excuse her unkind and disrespectful attitude and treatment of her elderly mother as she prepared for an early departure. Back in the states O’Neill resumed her life in Brooklyn, and it was surprising her South Korean family (including her uncle) wanted to have any contact with her. With thanks to our Public Library System. - 3* GOOD -
- Reviewed in the United States on January 17, 2025I enjoyed reading this book. It is quirky, humorous, and it reads like a novel with a stream of consciousness orientation. It works. The author, a professor of literature, takes the reader on a journey to find her birth mother in Korea. We never learn exactly why in the mist of Covid she undertakes this endeavor. It’s not like she had been wanting to find her birth mother all of her thirty-three years. Perhaps, the breakup of a ten-year relationship had something to do with it. The reader can only surmise.
As a Korean adoptee myself, I was initially drawn to the memoir, despite my lack of interest in finding anyone biologically-related to me. Yet, as a reader of memoirs, this book takes the reader on a wonderful journey of discovery. The author’s writing style is different, not linear, so if one is not paying attention, details can be missed. But, it keeps you on your toes.