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Win Me Something Kindle Edition

3.9 out of 5 stars 184 ratings

A NPR, Electric Lit, and Entropy Best Book of the Year


A Washington Post, Shondaland, NPR Books, Parade, Lit Hub, PureWow, Harper’s Bazaar, PopSugar, NYLON, Alta, Ms. Magazine, Debutiful and Good Housekeeping Best Book of Fall


A perceptive and powerful debut of identity and belonging—of a young woman determined to be seen.


Willa Chen has never quite fit in. Growing up as a biracial Chinese American girl in New Jersey, Willa felt both hypervisible and unseen, too Asian to fit in at her mostly white school, and too white to speak to the few Asian kids around. After her parents’ early divorce, they both remarried and started new families, and Willa grew up feeling outside of their new lives, too.


For years, Willa does her best to stifle her feelings of loneliness, drifting through high school and then college as she tries to quiet the unease inside her. But when she begins working for the Adriens—a wealthy white family in Tribeca—as a nanny for their daughter, Bijou, Willa is confronted with all of the things she never had. As she draws closer to the family and eventually moves in with them, Willa finds herself questioning who she is, and revisiting a childhood where she never felt fully at home. Self-examining and fraught with the emotions of a family who fails and loves in equal measure, Win Me Something is a nuanced coming-of-age debut about the irreparable fissures between people, and a young woman who asks what it really means to belong, and how she might begin to define her own life.

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"Impressive...." —Kirkus, Starred Review

"A resonant knockout" T Kira Madden

A Most Anticipated Book of the Year at LitHub and The Millions

"Masterly reveals the fury, hope, and longing ..." Mira Jacob

Editorial Reviews

From School Library Journal

Willa has never felt like she fit in, especially after her parents remarried and had children with their new spouses. Her alienation is further complicated by her biracial identity. She lives primarily with her white mother, who is clueless about the racism Willa deals with, but she still feels as if she isn't Chinese enough in Asian spaces. This has translated into a fear of being noticed or voicing her own desires in case she is rejected. In her mid-20s, floundering after college, Willa takes a job as a live-in nanny for the Adriens, a rich family in New York City's Tribeca. Over the course of a school year, as she integrates into their life, she mistakes her sense of being professionally needed for a sense of personal belonging. Told in short chapters with occasional flashbacks to childhood, Willa's first-person narration is infused with the unbearable ache of loneliness. This gorgeously written quiet and evocative character study subtly looks at family, belonging, race, and class as Willa tries to find a professional and personal place for herself. VERDICT A superb book, but with the majority of the time line focused on Willa's adulthood, it will not hold broad teen appeal.-Jennifer Rothschild, Arlington Cty. P.L., VAα(c) Copyright 2011. Library Journals LLC, a wholly owned subsidiary of Media Source, Inc. No redistribution permitted.

Review

"A subtle, wise debut. . . . Win Me Something is a nuanced story of longing, of the paired desires to belong and to strike one’s own path. Willa is a quiet heroine, but unforgettable."
Shelf Awareness

"Wu’s compassionate debut traces one woman’s search for belonging. . . . Wu brilliantly lays out the complicated dynamics of love, belonging, and care that exist within all relationships."
Publishers Weekly

"Willa’s story―and figuring out her sense of self―truly leaps off the page."
Alma

"Wu understands the human heart keenly, and her novel is a subtle but powerful triumph."
NPR Books

"Finely crafted."
The New York Times Book Review

"I’ve never read a novel quite like
Win Me Something, which is to say that I’ve never seen the nuances of navigating a biracial identity put, so beautifully, in fiction. . . . Readers will recognize themselves in Willa’s loneliness, and they will feel that they are, finally, in good company."
LitHub

"A lovely coming-of-age story that will resonate with anyone who’s felt separate, or questioned where they belong."
The Washington Post

"Like a latter-day Willa Cather, after whom her protagonist is named, Kyle Lucia Wu has written a beautiful novel about a fiercely American young woman whose Americanness is constantly questioned by those around her. This is a sad, funny, and tender coming-of-age story about what family and belonging means for someone who is realizing that she is constantly watched but not truly seen."
David Burr Gerrard, author of The Epiphany Machine

"A stunning coming of age tale of a young woman searching for belonging and finding power in defining herself."
Electric Lit

"Impressive, insightful."
Booklist

"A subtly rendered and satisfying story of someone on the verge of beginning to know herself."
BookBrowse

"Feels like listening to a friend tell you about her life straightforward and true. . . . thoughtful and moving."
ZYZZYVA

"Enthralling. . . . Deeply affecting."
The Atlantic

"A story about growing up and finding your place in the world―or creating one of your own."
Good Housekeeping

"Wu’s writing is pitch perfect from start to finish. The introspective and subtle plot floats off the page."
Debutiful

"Masterfully reveals the fury, hope, and longing that come with trying to be seen in a world that never looks for you."
Mira Jacob, author of Good Talk

"This poignant debut is about identity, acceptance and complicated family dynamics."
PureWow

"Tender and devastating."
The Atlantic

"A resonant knockout."
T Kira Madden, author of Long Live the Tribe of Fatherless Girls

"A deeply moving coming-of-age novel."
Ploughshares

"Readers looking for a taste of the millennial psyche but perhaps intimidated by the hype around Sally Rooney will want to check out
Win Me Something by debut novelist Kyle Lucia Wu. . . . this tale of Willa, a young biracial woman, will resonate with a lot of younger people."
Napa Valley Register

"
Win Me Something is an observant, contemplative story about the complex reality of growing up with a mixed identity in two starkly different mixed families. Kyle Lucia Wu deftly weaves back and forth between Willa’s teenaged years and her adult life to explore loneliness, uncertainty, and a singular, persistent question―where do I truly belong?"
Crystal Hana Kim, author of If You Leave Me

"A poignant, impressive debut that should herald the rise of a literary force to be reckoned with."
Shondaland

"Superb. . . . This gorgeously written quiet and evocative character study subtly looks at family, belonging, race, and class."
School Library Journal

"A powerhouse debut, this nuanced coming-of-age story is for anyone who has felt hypervisible and invisible, inside and outside, seen and unseen."
Ms. Magazine

"Kyle Lucia Wu’s
Win Me Something is groundbreaking in its exploration of blended families and a biracial Asian American consciousness. In subtle but strikingly observed scenes that depict race, class, and lives of having and not having, she explores the secret want that we all have: to belong to something, somewhere. Here we find Willa, a biracial Chinese American narrator seeking to understand where she belongs in the family of things. Here is a prose writer who relishes in the poetry of language. Under Wu’s deft hand, each sentence unfolds like a miracle."
Cathy Linh Che, author of Split

"A wistful novel about how much effort it can take to find and settle into your place in the world."
Foreword Reviews

"A soul-searching journey to be heard, and to belong."
West Trade Review

"A beautiful debut. . . . A powerful, introspective journey that explores race, class, and family dynamics."
Cleveland Review of Books

"Come to read about a live-in nanny deal with the antics of a rich family in Tribeca, stay for the nuanced exploration of identity."
NYLON

"Tender, melancholic, self-reflexive, and quietly poignant. In other words, it feels like growing up."
Necessary Fiction

"Intelligently crafted."
The Pittsburgh Post-Gazette

"Exquisite."
Glamour

"Carefully observed and subtly devastating."
VOGUE

"[A] poignantly executed. . . . exploration of kinship of all stripes."
Departures

"Impressive. . . . expect subtle surprises as Willa’s relationships evolve in a satisfying accumulation of carefully drawn small moments that build toward her understanding, even acceptance, of both an imperfect world and herself."
Kirkus, Starred Review

"Winsome and tender."
Harper's Bazaar

"A great book that will spark lots of discussions about family, identity, and how we see ourselves."
Book Riot

"A quietly affecting tale of family dynamics."
Library Journal

"Taut, engrossing, and masterfully observed,
Win Me Something announces a powerful and luminescent new literary voice in Kyle Lucia Wu."
Alexandra Kleeman, author of You Too Can Have a Body Like Mine

Product details

  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B09C11SN9J
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Tin House Books (November 2, 2021)
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ November 2, 2021
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • File size ‏ : ‎ 3.1 MB
  • Text-to-Speech ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Screen Reader ‏ : ‎ Supported
  • Enhanced typesetting ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • X-Ray ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Word Wise ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 272 pages
  • Customer Reviews:
    3.9 out of 5 stars 184 ratings

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Kyle Lucia Wu is the author of the novel Win Me Something (Tin House Books 2021) and the co-author of the children’s book An Asian American A to Z: A Children's Guide to our History (Haymarket Books 2023). An NPR Best Book of the Year, Win Me Something was called “carefully observed and subtly devastating” by Vogue, “finely crafted” by The New York Times, and “a poignant, impressive debut” by Shondaland. A former Asian American Writers’ Workshop Margins Fellow, Kyle is the Deputy Director at Kundiman and teaches creative writing at Fordham University and The New School. She lives in Brooklyn, New York.

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  • Reviewed in the United States on July 2, 2022
    I can't believe this is a first book ... three families all connected to Willa... Compelling story & writing.... I hope we learn more about Willa's journey in a future book.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on January 25, 2022
    There is so much to unwrap in this book! Willa is a fascinating character, grappling with her relationships with both parents while trying to figure out how to care for somebody else’s child. She holds resentments towards both parents, both having created new families after they split with each other. She felt like she was semi-forgotten by her father, which is something I with which I was able to identify. I resented my dad for years after he remarried and had two more children. I didn’t feel like I received even half of the love and benefits of having him as a father. I have since realized that was primarily all in my head, but at the time it felt very real, and it I felt very unimportant. I spent the majority of my time with my mom, who I resented for everything that was wrong in my life (and I carried that for years as well). Willa’s character felt like it was written with the emotions of somebody that had felt similarly as they moved into full-blown adulthood.
    I also did a stint as a nanny back when I was in college. I was never a live-in, but I did become very close to those kids. It’s an interesting relationship between a nanny and her wards. I loved those kids. I saw their successes as mine while I was with them, and I also felt their pain almost like I was their parent. Then, somehow, I had to put away the “parent” hat when their parents came home, and I had to figure out how to fill that hole until I was back on the job. When the family sat me down to let me know they were not going to need a nanny anymore, I was devastated. While I knew it was a job, and jobs do end, I was more emotionally tangled in this family than I would have been with other jobs, so I was lost for a while.
    I feel like I connected with this book more than others might simply because Willa’s life so closely resembled my own (except for that whole live in New York City part, though in my mid-twenties I would have loved to). I have often said that one person’s response to a book is going to differ from others based entirely on how they connect to the characters and storyline, which is why I enjoyed this one so much. I look forward to future work by Wu!
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  • Reviewed in the United States on September 16, 2023
    The writing is very colorful. It paints a picture you can see clearly in your mind. And I appreciated the main character development as well at first. I’m alway a sucker for a book that goes back and forth between times. But I just didn’t feel growth or closure at the end. I’m sure that was the point. Real life doesn’t get tied up with a bow. But this book ended like any other chapter would have ended. I thought something had happened to my kindle when the next page was “Acknowledgments”.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on November 6, 2021
    One of my favorite novels this year....both quiet and narratively propulsive, it was a dream read. The voice, the nuanced characters, the structure, the pacing. I hope this book receives all of the accolades and readers it deserves!
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  • Reviewed in the United States on February 25, 2022
    WIN ME SOMETHING

    Willa is in her 20's, living in NY. She's drifting through life, not really knowing what to do or what she wants. She's biracial -- her dad is Asian and her Mom white. She's never really fit in....or LET herself feels as if she fits in. She's uncomfortable with people, uncomfortable without people, doesn't feel capable of carrying on a conversation, feels literally awkward.

    The book jumps back and forth between Willa's childhood and present time. Her parents divorce and both remarry and start new families....Willa never connects with any of her siblings. She can barely keep in touch with her parents.

    She becomes a nanny to Bijou Adrien...her parents are well off and live the good life. Is Willia finally going to be happy and content with herself? Can she move forward from the past and make a happier and new life for herself?

    The characters are fleshed-out and down-to-earth. You can feel the angst in Willa, the charm of young Bijou, the aloofness of Nathalie, Bijou's mom. The blasts to the past were great, getting an inside view of Willa's life and how she came to have the feelings and problems she has.

    All in all, a good book. A quiet and content type of read.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on December 31, 2021
    Everything to like. Could not put it down
    Masterful writing skills
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  • Reviewed in the United States on November 2, 2021
    I was taken with Willa and her story of identity and belonging. She is never quite seen, though always watched and seeing her navigate early adulthood was a deceptively simple and, ultimately, very memorable read. I catch myself thinking of this story when I am driving or walking the dog and I can't recommend it enough.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on August 8, 2022
    Despite having read it nearly a year ago, I think about this novel all the time. Kyle Lucia Wu is a major talent and I’ll read anything she writes always and forever.

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