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Finding Love Again: 6 Simple Steps to a New and Happy Relationship Paperback – June 1, 2012
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Based on a groundbreaking 25-year study of marriage, divorce, and new love―finding the right one just became 100% possible. Whether you're divorced or separated, out of a long-term relationship, or newly dating after a long break, Finding Love Again will help you prepare for a healthy and fulfilling new relationship. Brimming with stunning original findings, first-person stories, and eye-opening advice, Finding Love Again shows you simple, practical strategies that have been shown time and again to help singles find someone special. Dr. Terri L. Orbuch, renowned relationship expert and director of a pioneering relationship study, shows you:
- Eight relationship myths that are sabotaging your love life.
- Why singles who have little or no contact with an ex's family find love at significantly higher rates than singles who keep in close contact with their ex-in-laws.
- How singles who make one change to their daily routine―and stick with it for at least 21 days―are twice as likely to find new love.
- Why the happiest couples in new relationships are the ones who don't share bank accounts.
Finding Love Again shows proven strategies that can help anyone find love again.
- Print length272 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherSourcebooks Casablanca
- Publication dateJune 1, 2012
- Dimensions5.5 x 0.68 x 8.5 inches
- ISBN-109781402265679
- ISBN-13978-1402265679
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"Loved Finding Love Again! So reassuring, knowledgeable and practical. Divorce is painful and most people need help putting the past in the past and understanding how best to enter a new future. Based on clinical and research experience, this guide to loving again details how to re-approach a new relationship based on the firm footing of Dr. Orbuch's clinical and research experience. There is so much good information and support in these pages- --I highly recommend it!" ― Pepper Schwartz, Ph.D., Professor of Sociology, the University of Washington, and author of Prime
"Finding Love Again defuncts the relationship myths you grew up with to help you move forward with your love life and leave the past behind." ― Julie Spira, online dating expert and bestselling author of The Perils of Cyber-Dating
"If you´ve fallen off the relationship horse and been afraid to get back on, fear no more. Terri L. Orbuch, Ph.D., guides you lovingly and knowingly through the challenges of climbing back into the saddle of relationships, and this time you´ll have all the tools you´ll need to keep riding high. I´ve been studying marriages and relationships for most of my career, but I am always pleased to find there´s something new to learn from Terri´s books." ― Scott Haltzman, MD, psychiatrist and author of The Secrets of Surviving Infidelity
"In Finding Love Again, Terri L. Orbuch, Ph.D., uses findings from her decades-long landmark study of newly married people to offer a plethora of useful advice on coping and renewal to singles recovering from divorces and relationship break-ups…this book is a gift that singles and their loved ones will want to share and keep handy, as Orbuch and her work offer one antidote to the flux in close relationships that shows no signs of abating in the 21st century." ― John H. Harvey, Professor of Psychology, Emeritus, University of Iowa
"... Dr. Orbuch's study findings are quite fascinating and surprising." ― BlogCritics.org
"Orbuch helps readers understand why men and women are hardwired for conflict, why communication is important in every relationship, and why committing to any change in one’s daily routine for 21 days can help find new love... A Great starting place for anyone reentering the dating arena." ― Library Journal
About the Author
Dr. Terri Orbuch, The Love Doctor®, is a relationship expert and therapist who is the project director for the Early Years of Marriage project, funded by the NIH, a landmark study of marriage, divorce, and repartnering that is unprecedented in its scope. Dr. Orbuch is a research professor at the Institute for Social Research at the University of Michigan, a professor at Oakland University, and is the relationship advisor at OurTime.com. She appears each week on Fox 2-Detroit Morning News in a live, in-studio "Love Doctor" segment and writes blogs and articles at Huffington Post, Psychology Today and other national print outlets. She also is author of 5 Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage From Good to Great.
Product details
- ASIN : 1402265670
- Publisher : Sourcebooks Casablanca (June 1, 2012)
- Language : English
- Paperback : 272 pages
- ISBN-10 : 9781402265679
- ISBN-13 : 978-1402265679
- Item Weight : 12.8 ounces
- Dimensions : 5.5 x 0.68 x 8.5 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #387,967 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #1,912 in Love & Romance (Books)
- #2,161 in Marriage
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About the author

In addition to her role as the project director of the Early Years of Marriage Project, Terri L. Orbuch, Ph.D., is an author, speaker, therapist, professor at Oakland University, and research professor at the Institute for Social Research at the University of Michigan. She is well respected as a researcher and professor in the scientific world, and is also known by TV, radio, and online fans as The Love Doctor®, the country's most trusted relationship expert.
Dr. Orbuch has been featured in such national publications as The Wall Street Journal, The New York Times, USA Today, Cosmopolitan, Reader's Digest, Women's Health, and TIME magazine. She has also appeared on The Today Show, The Katie Couric Show, HuffPost Live, ESPN and CNN. Her relationship segments are aired on Fox-TV Detroit and she is a relationship expert for OurTime.com. Her national public television special called Secrets from The Love Doctor has been airing since 2013 and is available as a DVD. She brings her simple, straightforward, science-based relationship advice to REAL people everywhere! She lives in Michigan with her husband.
You can learn more about Terri and read advice at http://www.drterrithelovedoctor.com.
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- Reviewed in the United States on April 8, 2024Simply written, but of high quality. The specific steps in this book for finding love are simple for the common person to use. The book contains lots of research to support its claims about relationships and finding new love, a must if people are to be persuaded to follow the recommendations.
- Reviewed in the United States on March 18, 2017Good book! Vsry sound advice!
- Reviewed in the United States on October 23, 2016Dr. Orbuch's book Finding Love Again 6 Simple Steps to a New and Happy Relationship is a recipe for success. It provides many step by step techniques on how to improve yourself and methods on how to get back out into the dating world. The book does not take a biased viewpoint. It focuses on the differences between men and women that is backed by Scientific evidence. I found it easy to read, thorough and insightful. I highly recommend this book for anyone interested in beginning a new, happy and healthy relationship.
Karen Freedland
- Reviewed in the United States on February 28, 2023Lots of good information. There was plenty of talk about children, about agreeing on how many kids a couple wanted to have etc. Nothing mentioned about grand-children, or dating for over 55 years old.
The examples for break ups, and the interviews for the studies were mostly younger couples, “who couldn’t get along”, or “grew apart”, etc.
Nothing mentioned about the more modern dilemmas that cause couples to separate, such as finding kiddy porn on your spouses computer, or problems with addictions, as reasons for divorce.
It was still a good read, but now, the author needs to write one for older couples who get divorced, and desire finding a companion again. We want a senior edition!
- Reviewed in the United States on December 21, 2021This is a great book to guide you through a divorce and re-engagement in dating life. It covers the key elements of personal growth and gives concrete suggestions about how to approach a new relationship and not repeat reasons why previous relationships fizzled or burned out.
- Reviewed in the United States on June 7, 2013If I wanted to lower my expectations, I would have stayed with my ex-husband. I think that the point is you have to decide what you want to settle for and if you don't want to settle, then "love" is out of the question. Maybe my problem is that I still don't know what love is, but I'm way too old to "settle" again.
- Reviewed in the United States on August 26, 2012After reading this book, I realize that I made the best decision I ever could have made by walking away from who I thought was the love of my life. Dr. Terri confirmed that my idea of what I feel love is supposed to be has been right all along and the love I feel I deserve is not out of reach. Through this book, I have gained a renewed hope for finding someone who is truly right for me and not blaming myself or my ex for the pain I have endured along the way. I am very grateful for the publication of this book and I look forward to continuing to implement its advice and finding love again. :)
- Reviewed in the United States on February 22, 2015The only reason a person would buy this book is to find love again. But it is possible to follow these steps and not find love again. If the author is so sure of herself and the science (i.e. surveys) behind her book, she should offer a money back guarantee.
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Dana DietrichReviewed in Germany on January 30, 2014
5.0 out of 5 stars Super, super, super!
Die Bücher von Terri Orbuch sind erste klasse. Der Vorgänger "Die 5 Geheimnisse glücklicher Paare war schon klasse, hier geht es dann eher um das Thema wieder in eine neue Partnerschaft reinzugehen. In dem Buch sind viele hilfreiche praktische Tipps, worauf man am Anfang achten sollte.
- Sreenath MadathilReviewed in Canada on May 18, 2016
4.0 out of 5 stars Four Stars
A must read.